CHS 1963

In Memory of

Richard Porter

Gone, Not Forgotten,

Let me tell you about Dick Porter - he was a friend of mine.   As most of you all know I got pregnant at 16 and had a baby  This was about a year and a half  after a horrible loss and change in my family. 

I was forced to marry and lived on  West  Main  Street with my in-laws - who were wonderful by the way.  My husband never missed a party or dance after the wedding -- he was a kid too.  I did not care .  The baby was comfort and helped me  to come to grips with the loss of my Father and Brother - I was finally peaceful..   

Dick never missed a party or dance either - the only difference  with Dick was that he sometimes headed home around midnight  (he always had a job and needed to sleep)  If he went by the house and saw my lights on he would stop in to see me and Jerry (he called him Spike)  We would talk softly about the activities of his evening and he always kept me up to date with very important teenage business.  If Spike was awake he always wanted to  hold him - grinning from ear to ear.   

One  Saturday morning a big truck from Ticknor's  stopped at my door and a rocking chair came out of the back.  A rocking chair for me and Spike - it was from Dick ( he was about 18 years old at the time.) He told me later he thought I needed a rocking chair to rock my baby - (I think he may have seen his Mother rocking babies as his family was larger than most.)  Needless to say I spent many hours in that chair with Mr. Spike -  we both loved it. Sometime rocking while  listening to Dick tell me all the news of my peers - sometimes with Spike in Dick's arms and a big grin on his face. 

The chair was in my bedroom until Jerry got married - I then passed it on to the new couple.  It has been their bedroom  ever since.  Jerry's wife and kids have also  used the chair that "Daddy got  from some guy when he was a baby"  Thanks again Dick - you were a gem.                                                                                                                                                                    ......Judy Compagni Durkee